Aries men are very fast and fiery when it comes to making decisions. One moment, they seem to be completely enveloped in you. The next, they have moved on to the next interesting thing. So what are the signs an Aries man is not interested anymore?
As a fire sign myself, I can tell you that the Aries man won’t be subtle about his waning interest. An Aries man shows that he isn’t interested in the relationship directly. He will cut off his good mood, communication, and availability towards you.
It can feel abrupt when an Aries man changes how they feel romantically. They aren’t one to be slow and drawn out when it comes to love. So it may seem like a rug has been pulled out from underneath you.
Catching the signs beforehand can help you to not be caught off guard by the sudden change in his feelings towards you.
In this post, we will look at the signs that indicate an Aries man is no longer interested in your relationship.
Here are 10 clear signs that an Aries man is no longer interested in his partner:
- He Becomes Moody, Irritable, and Defensive
- He’s Distant in Conversations
- He’s Being Commitment-Phobic
- He’s Impatient
- He’s Being Social…without You
- He Picks at Your Imperfections
- He Flirts With Others in Front of You
- He Doesn’t Want to Fix Relationship Problems
- He No Longer Craves Intimacy
- He Doesn’t Share With You
With no further ado, let’s jump right in.
10 Signs an Aries Man Is Not Interested Anymore
With these signs in mind, you can be assured that you’re prepared for any sudden fluctuations in the relationship.
1. He Becomes Moody, Irritable, and Defensive
Aries men aren’t shy to express how they feel. So, if he’s suddenly become moody, irritable, and defensive around you, it could be a sign that he’s no longer interested.
He may not want to deal with the relationship anymore and will instead act out in order to push you away. If this is happening, it’s important to have a conversation with him about what’s going on.
2. He’s Distant in Conversations
Aries men are usually very passionate. They love to share conversations and experiences with their partners. If he’s becoming distant in your conversations, it could be a sign that there is no interest left.
He won’t be proactive in having a conversation with you and may even avoid conversations altogether. You may notice that he isn’t even listening at all. He may be distracting himself by looking at his phone or doing something else.
3. He’s Being Commitment-Phobic
It can be hard to get an Aries man to settle down in the first place. If he is struggling with committing to the relationship, he may not be willing to stick around long-term.
Perhaps he has been telling you from the start that he’s just not a “commitment kind of guy”. Perhaps he had promised you that early on, but he seems to have cold feet now. Either way, a lack of commitment is a sign that things are going downhill.
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4. He’s Impatient
Aries men are impatient in general, but over time, they learn how to be more compromising and patient in relationships. If you’ve noticed your Aries man has had a shorter fuse in the relationship, this may be a sign that he is losing interest.
You may notice him getting angry over small things, such as taking too long to get ready or making a decision. He may also become impatient with you if he feels that you are being stubborn or not listening to him.
If he’s not offering you support by giving you space and time, he may not want to move forward.
5. He’s Being Social…Without You
Aries are social creatures, and when you’re dating one, you can expect to be pulled into a new circle of friends. However, if you notice that he’s only hanging out with his friends, and no longer invites you along, it could be a sign that he’s losing interest.
If he’s not being honest about who he is spending his time with, this can be an even bigger red flag. It may be a sign that he isn’t taking your relationship seriously.
6. He Picks at Your Imperfections
Aries men will often project their discontent onto others. So, if he isn’t feeling great about the relationship, he may start to nitpick at your imperfections.
He may be more critical of you and what you wear or how you do things. He may also start to find fault in the things that you say. If this is happening, it’s a sign that he’s looking for excuses to end the relationship altogether.
7. He Flirts With Others in Front of You
Aries men are flirtatious by nature. However, if he’s flirting with others in front of you, it can be a sign that he is no longer interested.
He may do this to make you jealous or simply because he has lost interest in the relationship and is looking elsewhere for love.
8. He Doesn’t Want to Fix Relationship Problems
Aries men can be known as lazy. When a relationship is going downhill, this quality will become even more apparent.
You may notice that he isn’t interested in compromising, finding solutions, or even fighting for his beliefs anymore. This is a clear sign that he has given up and simply wants to put in as little energy as possible.
9. He No Longer Craves Intimacy
Aries men love sensual, passionate connections with their partners. If your Aries man isn’t interested in time between the sheets, physical contact, or flirting, he is distracted.
This may mean that he has lost his physical attraction for you. This is an important element of a relationship for an Aries man, so it may lead to him being less interested in you overall.
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10. He Doesn’t Share With You
Your Aries man may begin to start cutting you out of important areas of his life if he has one foot out the door. You may notice he doesn’t share with you when something happens in his family, at work, or with his friends.
This may be a sign that he doesn’t want you to feel like part of his life anymore and would rather just let things fade away altogether.
Will an Aries Come Back?
There is no definite answer, but oftentimes when an Aries man pulls away, he may come back. This is because Aries men have a fear of commitment and can often get cold feet. They may act rashly in the first place, but with time, will settle back into relationships.
There are a few things you can do to make sure your Aries man comes back after a period of distance:
Don’t Pressure Him to Come Back
Pressure will make an Aries man feel like he’s being suffocated. It won’t work in your favor, so try not to chase him and give him space instead.
He will appreciate you respecting his boundaries and this may be enough to draw him back into the relationship.
Work on Yourself During This Time Alone
If you’re feeling lonely without your Aries man, focus on improving yourself. Aries men love women who are self-assured and know what they want.
So, work on your confidence in the meantime and he will see the positive changes when he eventually comes back around.
Fill your time with things that make you happy – whether it’s reading, going out with friends, or working out. You will feel better about yourself and happier no matter what happens between you two.
Keep the Lines of Communication Open
An important thing to remember is that you should keep the lines of communication open. Make sure to check in on how he is feeling on a regular (but not too clingy) basis.
Send him short and sweet texts that show you still care without sounding desperate.
Don’t make it all about him. Ask how he is doing and then take the time to talk about yourself. Especially if there are positive changes as a result of giving him space, like taking up a new hobby or learning something new at work, for example.
Make sure your messages are short, upbeat, and positive. This will show that you are still interested in him and the relationship – no matter what is going on behind the scenes.
Let Him Know You’re Still Interested
Once the lines of communication are open, it’s important to let him know that you’re still interested in pursuing the relationship. This may be daunting at first, but do your best to show vulnerability and honesty when talking about how you feel.
He will need to know that you’re still interested in the relationship in order to make the choice to come back. If you don’t express your intentions, he may see the relationship as too much work and move on.
Lastly, be patient! Rome wasn’t built in a day and the same goes for relationships. If you can stick it out and give your Aries man the time and space he needs, he may very well come back around.
If you feel like your Aries man is no longer interested, there’s a good chance he just needs some time to himself. Remember that not all signs are definite and it’s always best to communicate with him about what you’re feeling.
However, it’s important to pay attention to these signs so you know if something more serious is happening. If you want to dive even deeper into the psychology of the Aries man, check out Aries Man Secrets.
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