It’s no secret that Virgos can be tough nuts to crack. They’re perfectionists to a fault, and they have high standards for both themselves and the people they date. If your relationship is on its way out or has ended, you may wonder how to make a Virgo man regret losing you.
The truth is, under their analytical exterior, Virgo men are very sensitive and insecure. They need to feel like they’re in control of their lives and relationships, and by knowing this, you can use it to your advantage.
I have never been one to shy away from a challenge. I’ve found that by playing a Virgo man’s game, you can actually get them to miss you more. Here are a few tips on how to make a Virgo man regret losing you:
- Remind him of your past
- Make him think you’re moving on
- Keep the conversations interesting
- Show your intelligence
- Let him know how caring you are
- Look your best
- Stay off social media
- Return any of his things
- Keep working on yourself
How to Make a Virgo Man Regret Losing You
Here are my tried and true tips for getting your Virgo man to have second thoughts about leaving the relationship:
1. Remind Him of Your Past
Virgo men are quite nostalgic and can get lost in the memories of better times. If you want to make your Virgo miss you, take him on a trip down memory lane.
Show him old photos of the two of you together, or remind him of fun inside jokes and shared experiences. If you have any mementos from your time together, like movie ticket stubs or restaurant receipts, bring them out.
This will help reignite the spark between the two of you and make him realize what he’s missing out on now.
He will also be touched if you remind him of your accomplishments together. Did the two of you travel to a new country or run a marathon together? Whatever it is, bringing up past shared triumphs will make him realize how strong your bond used to be.
2. Make Him Think You’re Moving On
Another lesser-known fact about Virgo men is that they’re very attached to their partners, even after things end. If you really want to make a Virgo man regret losing you, start moving on without him.
Show him that you’re meeting new people and going out with friends. Let him know that your calendar is busy if you two are trying to make plans to talk or meet up.
Don’t go overboard and start flaunting that you’ve found a new boyfriend just days after your split. He will sense that you’re not being genuine and will feel sorry for you instead of regretting letting go.
But if you play things cool and let him see that you’re enjoying your life without him, it will make him realize what he’s missing out on.
3. Keep the Conversations Interesting
One of the main reasons Virgos pull away is because they lose interest in their partners. This sign is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication.
They’re very analytical and need intellectual stimulation to stay interested. If you want to make a Virgo man regret losing you, keep your conversations interesting.
Talk about current events, share insights on books or articles you’ve read, or debate different viewpoints on hot topics. You can also ask him for his opinion on things to get him engaged in the conversation.
Whatever you do, avoid talking about mundane things like what you had for lunch or what you’re doing this weekend. He will tune out quickly and will be even more eager to end the conversation.
4. Show Your Intelligence
As mentioned above, Virgo men need intellectual stimulation, and they are most attracted to women who are smart. And of course, you are smart, he wouldn’t have dated you if you weren’t!
So make sure that you embrace this and show it with confidence. When you’re talking with your Virgo man, take the conversation a step deeper.
Even better, show your Virgo man how you plan to resolve issues, learn new things, and solve problems. Virgo men love women who take their intelligence and put it into practice. This will make him regret letting go of such a smart and amazing woman.
5. Let Him Know How Caring You Are
Virgos are very giving people and they appreciate partners who are similarly caring. If you want to make a Virgo man regret losing you, start by letting him know how much you care about others.
Volunteer for a charity event, cook dinner for a friend who’s going through a tough time. Send your Virgo man an uplifting text message telling him that you’re thinking of him.
It will remind your Virgo man of all the good times you shared together and make him regret letting go of such a kind-hearted woman.
6. Look Your Best
Virgos appreciate good hygiene and a put-together appearance. If you want to make a Virgo man regret losing you, start taking care of yourself more.
Dress your best, put on some makeup, and spruce up your hair. Make sure that you smell good too! Try to strike a balance between looking your best and looking natural. Since Virgos are earth signs, they also appreciate the natural beauty of a woman.
This way, every time he sees you, he will remember how attractive you are, both naturally, and with your personal efforts. It could make him regret letting go of such a well-put-together woman.
7. Stay off Social Media
Virgo men are curious beings. Even if they’re able to emotionally close off, they are still probably peeking at your socials to see how you’re doing.
A great way to make him even more curious about what you’re up to is to stop posting altogether. You can also post things that are less personal and a little mysterious.
This will pique his interest and make him regret losing you even more. Don’t be surprised if you receive a text message or call from him after some time. He will want to know what you’re up to and won’t be able to help himself!
8. Return Any of His Things
All earth signs, including Virgos, put a deep value on physical objects. If you want to make a Virgo man regret losing you, start returning any of his things that are still in your possession.
He may have given them to you as gifts or they may be personal items, but either way, returning them will remind him of all the good times you shared together. It will also show him that you’re cutting the cord.
This will make him feel regret and may make him question why he ended things in the first place.
Make sure that you’re not coming from a place of disrespect when you’re returning items to him. Keep in mind that it can be painful to have certain gifts rejected. So try to stick to giving him items that are his, not just returning every nice gift he ever gave you.
10. Keep Working on Yourself
Nothing makes a Virgo man more regretful of a breakup than seeing you thrive. Start (or continue to) work on yourself.
Join a gym, take up a new hobby, or read more books. Become the best possible version of yourself and let him see it. The better you become, the more he will wish he stayed along for the journey.
Will a Virgo Man Regret?
Since Virgo men are highly analytical and oftentimes perfectionists, they can regret breakups. They are prone to overthinking what happened and replaying situations in their heads endlessly.
The problem is that a Virgo man may experience analysis paralysis when he ponders too long on regrets in a relationship. This isn’t ideal for you, since he won’t be motivated to start the relationship up again or change.
So it’s important to take action if you want to make a Virgo man regret losing you. Use the tips above to get started.
You can also think about other situations in which your Virgo man has been regretful. Did he ever regret not studying harder for that test? Did he ever regret eating unhealthy foods and feeling bad afterward?
If you understand these things, you’ll be able to better relate to him and help him through his regrets. And who knows, maybe he’ll even start to regret losing you!
How Do You Make a Virgo Feel Guilty?
Since Virgos can be sensitive beings, they are susceptible to feeling guilty. There are a few ways that you can make a Virgo man feel guilty after breaking up with him:
1. Show Him How Much Pain You’re In
If you’re really hurting, let him see it. Cry, rant, and rave about how unfair the situation is. This will get under his skin and make him feel guilty for what he’s done.
Make sure that you don’t take things too far, though! If this turns into anger or aggressiveness, he will only feel more justified in his decision to break up with you.
2. Let Him Know That You Miss His Support
When a Virgo man is in your life, he provides a sense of stability and support. If you let him know how much you’re missing those things, he will feel guilty for leaving you without them.
Again, be careful not to overdo it. If you come across as needy or desperate, he’ll only feel more distanced from you.
3. Appeal to His Sense of Responsibility
As an earth sign, Virgos take their responsibilities seriously. If you can show him how his actions have affected you and others in a negative way, he will start to feel guilty.
For example, if he was your primary caretaker and left you without any warning, let him know how much pain and chaos his departure has caused.
If he was the breadwinner and left you struggling, explain how you now have to worry about money on top of everything else.
If you can make him feel like he is responsible for your pain, he will start to regret his decision to break up with you.
4. Be Quiet in Conversations
Virgo men like to stimulate their partners in conversation and to be engaging. If you’re a bit quiet or withholding in conversations, he will start to feel like something is wrong.
And once again, the guilt factor will kick in. He may regret breaking up with you because he senses you can’t be as open with him as you once were.
Does a Virgo Man Miss You?
As mentioned previously, Virgo men can be very sentimental. They may miss you more than you realize. If you want to know for sure, here are a few signs to look out for:
1. He Stays in Contact
If your Virgo man is still in contact with you after breaking up, it’s a sign that he misses you. He may not be ready to get back together yet, but the fact that he’s still talking to you means something.
2. You Have Unfinished Business
Virgo men love to complete their projects, be that a work project or a relationship. If he feels like there are still some things left unfinished between you two, that will make him miss you more.
3. He Starts Acting Out of Character
If your Virgo man starts to act out of character, it could be a sign that he’s missing you. For example, if he becomes more emotional or needy than usual, that may be his way of trying to reach out to you.
4. He Realizes He Trusts You More Than He Thought
Virgo men can be very guarded with their emotions. If he realizes that he trusts you more than he thought, it means that you’ve left a lasting impression on him.
He may not be ready to admit it yet, but the fact that he trusts you more than anyone else is a sign that he misses you.
It can be hard to let go of a Virgo man. Yet sometimes you can help him to change his mind and see that he’s made a mistake in leaving you.
By using the techniques mentioned above, you can make a Virgo man regret losing you. If you want to learn the ins and outs of your Virgo man, check out Virgo Man Secrets by Anna Kovach.
In this comprehensive guide, she will teach you how to make your Virgo man love you, how to understand his complex personality, and more.
From your Saggitarius sister to you, I wish you the best of luck with your Virgo man.