Do you have an undeniable feeling that things have suddenly changed between you and your Cancer man? When a Cancer man is done with you, it can feel like a sudden change that comes out of nowhere.
Instead of trying to second-guess his actions, it’s better to look at the tell-tale signs that he’s no longer interested.
I’ve talked with many women who were confused about their Cancer man’s motives. One of the most common themes is that he becomes distant and quickly drops off towards the end of a relationship.
This can be very confusing because it comes after a period where everything seems perfect. The reality is that you need to pay attention to this change in his actions rather than what he says or does not say. Cancers express themselves through emotions rather than with the logic of words.
Here are 6 signs that a Cancer man is done with you:
- He Won’t Call or Text as Often
- He Will Act Judgemental
- He Will Shut Down Emotionally
- He Cuts You Out of Family and Friend Circles
- The Intimacy Goes Away
- He Has Mood Swings
It can be painful to accept that a Cancer man is done with you. But it’s important to remember that you can save yourself a lot of heartbreak by paying attention to his actions.
Read on to learn exactly how a Cancer man will act when he has one foot out the door of the relationship.
6 Signs That Show When a Cancer Man Is Done With You
1. He Won’t Call or Text as Often
Cancer men aren’t always the most communicative when it comes to their feelings. But if he’s not texting or calling as often as he used to, that can be a sign that he’s no longer interested.
If you try to reach out to him and he doesn’t respond, that can be an even bigger red flag.
Look out for brief responses such as “Yeah,” “sure” and other non-committal answers. You’ll also want to take note if he waits for large periods of time before getting back to you.
For example, you may ask him to come over and watch a movie with you. If you don’t hear back from him until the following morning, it’s likely that he was avoiding the event altogether.
Before you make any major assumptions, ask him if he’s still interested in connecting with you. If the answer is anything other than a resounding “yes,” it may be time to let go and move on.
2. He Will Act Judgemental
Cancer men are known for using judgment as a way to protect themselves. If your Cancer man is acting judgemental, it’s likely that he’s trying to push you away.
He may make cutting comments about the way you dress or criticize your lifestyle choices. If he starts to put you down, it’s a clear sign that things are headed south.
Cancers are very emotional water-ruled signs. They will only act this way if they are struggling with their own internal feelings. This can manifest as a form of projection, where they are taking out their negative feelings on you.
In order to have a healthy relationship, it’s important that both people feel completely accepted by one another. If your Cancer man is acting judgementally towards you, he may not be able to accept the person that you are.
If this happens several times, take note and remember that it’s a sign that he may not be in the relationship for the right reasons.
3. He Will Shut Down Emotionally
It takes a while for a Cancer man to open up in a relationship, but when they do, it’s a sign that they are committed to you.
If your Cancer man no longer gives you emotional support, it’s likely that he has stopped feeling the way he used to about you. He may be burnt out or is no longer interested in continuing with the relationship.
Cancer men are very sensitive by nature and they don’t like opening up if their feelings aren’t strong enough for them to commit 100 percent.
If you notice that your Cancer man is shutting down, it may be because he’s no longer interested in the relationship. It can take months for them to build up their feelings. So, if they are acting distant after a short period of time, it means that they have lost interest.
Pay attention to his actions rather than what he tells you. If his actions and emotions don’t line up with what he is saying, it may be time to move on.
4. He Cuts You Out of Family and Friend Circles
One of the most obvious signs that a Cancer man is done with you has to do with his family and friendship circles. A Cancer man highly values his intimate relationships. He will immediately untangle you from them if he’s planning on leaving the relationship.
Since Cancers often lean towards living conservatively and avoiding drama at all costs, they won’t do this in an overt way. Instead, he will remove you from his life without much explanation.
If you suddenly find yourself left out of get-togethers, your Cancer man has lost interest in continuing the relationship.
Ask him directly why he is suddenly excluding you from his family and friendship circles. If it’s due to a lack of interest or feelings, don’t be afraid to walk away.
5. The Intimacy Goes Away
Cancer men need a lot of reassurance when it comes to relationships. If he feels like you are no longer there for him, then his feelings will be reflected through the intimacy.
If your Cancer man is suddenly pulling away from physical touch and love, it probably means that he’s done with the relationship. You may notice that he’s no longer as affectionate as he once was or that he’s avoiding intimate moments altogether.
This is often a sign that the relationship is coming to an end and your Cancer man is trying to find a way out.
6. He Has Mood Swings
Similar to other water-ruled zodiac signs, Cancer men have a very sensitive nature. This means it’s practically impossible for them to hide their feelings.
When your Cancer man is done with you, he will become moody and emotional when the two of you are together. He may yell or cry in order to get out his feelings. He may also make snide comments if he’s trying to push you away.
This is a sign that your Cancer man has lost interest and is no longer able to contain his negative feelings.
Before taking this behavior personally, try considering what may have caused him to suddenly become so moody around you. It can be helpful if you approach the situation with an open mind because Cancers can be moody in general.
However, if you sense that his behavior is due to your relationship, it may be time to move on.
How to know when other Zodiac Men are done with you?
Now that you have a good grasp of when a Cancer Man is done with you, it might be worthwhile to explore the signs other zodiac men will show you.
- Aries men
- Taurus men
- Gemini men
- Leo men
- Virgo men
- Libra men
- Scorpio men
- Sagittarius men
- Capricorn men
- Aquarius men
- Pisces men
If you see a number of these signs in your Cancer man, it may be time to move on. Don’t try convincing him to stay if he’s made up his mind, because it will only prolong the inevitable. Be understanding and let him go gracefully.
He will appreciate it in the long run, and you will be able to leave the relationship with respect and dignity. There is, after all, someone else out there who can love you the way you deserve to be loved.
If you want to dig deeper into the mind of your Cancer so that you can decide whether this relationship is best for you, check out Anna Kovach’s Cancer Man Secrets guide. This comprehensive text will let you know exactly how to get the desired outcome from your Cancer man.