If you’re currently dating an Aries man, or have dated one in the past, then you may be wondering when he’s going to “drop the bomb” and end things.
They are known for their impulsive hot and cold behavior, so it’s hard to tell when an Aries man is done with you. This is because they are ruled by the fiery planet Mars. This is the planet of action and aggression and it leads to rash decisions.
One minute, your man may be all over you, texting you non-stop and making plans for the future. The next minute they may be completely ignoring you and acting like you don’t exist.
It can be a confusing experience, especially if you don’t know what signs to look for. Luckily, I have been through it myself and I can help you to figure out when an Aries man is done with you.
Here are the top three signs that an Aries man is ready to end things:
- He Is Constantly Irritated By the Relationship
- He Stops Listening During Conversations
- He Refuses to Apologize
- The Passion Is Done
- He Acts Extremely Selfish
- He Acts Interested in Other Women
- He Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Future
- He Can’t Commit to the Future
- You Catch Him in Lies
- He’s More Social With Other Friends
No one likes it when their partner pulls away from a relationship. But by knowing the signs, you can be prepared for when it happens and minimize heartbreak.
So read on and learn how to navigate this tricky situation!
10 Signs When an Aries Man Is Done With You
Using specific characteristics of the Aries man, you can identify the traits that show he’s no longer interested.
1. He Is Constantly Irritated By the Relationship
Aries men are known for their short temper. This increases, even more, when they’re losing interest. If you find that your Aries man is snapping at you more often, it’s a sign that he’s no longer invested in the relationship.
You may find yourself walking on eggshells around him, trying to avoid anything that would set him off. But no matter what you do, it seems like he’s always angry at you. He is likely projecting his own feelings of dissatisfaction onto you.
2. He Stops Listening During Conversations
Since the fiery Aries’ mind is moving so quickly, it can be hard for your Aries man to focus on conversations. However, if he isn’t interested in you anymore, he will make a point to zone out during conversations.
He may stare off into space, or look at his phone while you’re talking. This is a clear sign that he’s no longer invested in what you have to say.
If you try to talk to him about this, he will likely become defensive and deny that he was doing anything wrong. This is a way of deflecting the blame and avoiding the issue.
3. He Refuses to Apologize
Since the Aries man is a cardinal sign, he likes being in control, and he likes being right. In a healthy relationship, the Aries man will learn how to make compromises.
But when he’s done with you, he will refuse to apologize, even when he knows he’s in the wrong.
This is because admitting that he was wrong would mean losing control of the situation. He would rather hold onto his pride than admit that he had made a mistake.
4. The Passion Is Done
Aries men are known to be passionate and intense. If you find that the passion is gone from your relationship, it’s a sign that he’s no longer interested.
He may stop being as physically affectionate, or he may lose interest in sex altogether. You may also notice that he doesn’t put effort forth to flirt with you or seduce you. This is a clear sign that he no longer sees you as a priority in his life.
5. Aries Men Act Extremely Selfish
Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, which means that this sign is very self-centered. In a healthy relationship, the Aries man will learn to compromise and put his partner’s needs first. But when he’s done with you, he will only care about himself.
He may make plans without considering your schedule, or he may cancel plans at the last minute without any regard for how it affects you.
You’ll notice a strong indifference or even anger when you express your needs. This is a clear sign that he doesn’t care about your feelings anymore.
6. He Acts Interested in Other Women
When an Aries man is done with you, he will start to show a clear interest in other women. Your man may talk about other women more often, or he may start flirting with them right in front of you.
Aries men don’t necessarily feel the need to hide their attraction to others. But it’s possible that your Aries man may hide his attraction to other women if he knows it would hurt you.
Keep an eye out for if he’s one foot out of the door by keeping an eye on his social media habits and the way he talks about other women.
7. He Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Future
Aries men tend to live in the moment. They are not known for their long-term planning. However, if your Aries man starts to avoid conversations about the future, it’s a sign that he doesn’t see you in his future.
Your man may change the subject whenever you bring up the future, or he may act uncomfortable when you start making long-term plans.
He may say things such as “we’ll see” or “I don’t know about that”. If he previously was interested in building a future with you, this is a sign that your Aries man is done with you.
8. He Can’t Commit to Relationship Activities
If your Aries man starts to back out of previously agreed-upon plans, it’s a sign that he’s no longer interested in being in a relationship with you.
Aries men are known for their spontaneity. If your man can’t commit to even small things like going on a date or taking a weekend trip together, it’s a sign that he is in his safety zone. Your man just isn’t willing to contribute to the relationship.
9. You Catch Him in Lies
When an Aries man starts to lie, it’s a sign that he’s not acting like himself and trying to delay ending the relationship. For some reason, he doesn’t want to tell you the truth.
He may feel it’s a bad time for him to be honest with you about his feelings due to current relationship circumstances.
Aries men are known for being honest and straightforward. So, if you find that your man is starting to lie about things large and small, there is a shift happening in the relationship.
10. He’s More Social With Other Friends
Your Aries man loves being social, and he will want to bring you along when he meets up with people in his life. If your Aries man disappears more frequently because he is hanging out with other friends, it’s a sign that he is losing interest.
He may start separating himself from you and your mutual friends. He may also start making new plans without involving you.
If socializing with others is more important to him than spending time with you, it’s a sign that he no longer wants to be in a relationship with you.
How Do Aries Break Up?
When an Aries man is done with you, he will likely break up with you in an abrupt and harsh way. He may not have the patience to sit down and talk things out. And he may use short commanding sentences such as “it’s over” to get his point across.
To avoid a deeper conversation, he may end things via text message or over the phone. He may also ghost you completely and disappear from your life without any explanation.
This is because your man sees a breakup as a competition. It’s more important for him to break up with you than vice versa. This means he will likely be short with his words and inflexible during a breakup.
If your Aries man is done with you, he will probably tell you this is a permanent decision. While this can be hard to hear, it’s best to accept his decision and move on.
An Aries man is not known for getting back together with an ex, so it’s unlikely that he will change his mind once he has ended things.
What Will Make an Aries Man Come Back?
As mentioned above, when an Aries guy ends a relationship, he isn’t usually looking to reconcile. However, depending on the nature of the breakup, there may be some space for reconnection. Here are a few tricks for making an Aries man come back:
1. Don’t Shame Him
The last thing your man wants to hear when he’s trying to break up with you is how terrible he is or the bad things he has done.
This will only push him further away, and may also make him upset. Instead of criticizing him, try to be understanding and supportive.
Say things such as “I know you’re trying to do what’s best for you” or “I understand this is hard for you.” These phrases will help him to see that you’re not trying to make the situation harder than it already is.
2. Don’t Get Mad
Your Aries man is used to being in control, so when he’s trying to end things, he expects you to be okay with it. If you get mad at him, it will only make him feel justified in his decision to break up with you.
Try to stay calm and collected when he breaks up with you. This doesn’t mean you have to be happy about the situation. But, if you can remain level-headed, it will show him that you’re still interested in being friends or remaining in his life.
3. Show Him You Still Love and Care About Him
When an Aries man is in a relationship, loyalty is the most important thing to him. Don’t try to make him jealous by dating other people or flirting with his friends. This will only push him away.
Instead, show him that you still care about him and want to be with him. Send him a text message letting him know you’re thinking about him. Or, reach out to mutual friends and ask how he’s doing. Be careful not to be too clingy.
Just let him know you still respect him and are there for him if needed.
How Long Does It Take for an Aries Man to Come Back?
It can be hard to tell exactly how long it will take for an Aries to come back. This is because he is such a spontaneous person. However, if you ended the relationship on positive terms, it’s possible that he could come back to you in a few days or weeks.
Since your Aries guy is impulsive and doesn’t like to be alone, he may come back relatively quickly. The Aries zodiac sign is very big on physical touch and intimacy.
Your man may be craving your affection and even go through a small physical or emotional withdrawal after losing you.
When an Aries man is on the receiving side of a breakup, he’s also likely to come back to you sooner. This is because he doesn’t like to be broken up with and may not be done with you in his own heart.
If he was interested in another person when he broke up with you, it may take him longer to come back. He will want to explore this new relationship and see where it goes before he makes a decision about getting back together with you.
If the relationship ended on extremely negative terms, your Aries male is probably done with you for good. Your man won’t be great at forgiving you for major betrayal such as cheating.
When an Aries man feels wronged in a big way, he cuts the cord permanently.
Learn When Other Zodiac Men Are Done With You
Take a look at the tell-tale signs of other men when they are done with you in the below articles:
It’s helpful to know if your love is done with you so that you can move on with as much grace as possible. If you still feel there is something to fight for in the relationship, you now have some tips for getting him back in time.
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This guide will help you to understand him on a much deeper level so that you can make the relationship work for both of you.